YES I am stressed out over money!! I never was before until a con man came into my life and got me over an extra $100,000 in debt. I am a single mom who does not get help from the "father", he could care less if his son was left out in the cold. I just have tooo may bills this month. My property taxes are higher than they have ever been, home owners insurance is almost $550.00 and vehicle insurance is $625.00. There is no way to pay all of that plus all the other bills that my ex got me into. He always would convince me that he would pay the bill, but put it in my name bacause his credit would not be good enough. Well, I am a very trusting person. When someone says that they are in love with you, you believe them. This whole scam went on for 6 years. I am not the only one he scammed, he conned a lot of people here in town too, but I think that I got the worst of it all. My son will have no Christmas for the second year in a row. I just can't help but to cry all the time. I have tried ALL of the refinancing deals since I am a Veteran and they want 3 compairables. You can't get that in this small town, but they don't care, they just say "well, sorry we can't help you." I need help for the first time in my life. I am such a giver and have never had to be a taker. I don't like to ask for help, it makes me feel like I failed as a person. BUT, here I am asking "begging" for help. If you can SERIOUSLY help me, please let me know. Thank you and May God Bless, Shawneen